We want The Wayback to be an enjoyed by all. Here are 10 ‘do’s’ and ‘don’ts’ for the best experience possible:
- Do familiarise yourself with the film first - it will help you prompt conversations later.
- Don’t rush. Gently introducing The Wayback at a quieter time and place, will be more beneficial to all.
- Do sit with the person as they watch - it’s vital you’re there to let them reminisce.
- Don’t be afraid to let conversations wander – every conversation helps the person feel valued and listened to.
- Do stay engaged. Your interest will help sustain theirs. Ask them what they see, gently prompting their own memories.
- Don’t expect conversations and memories to flow every time. We all have our own times when we’re more engaged and a person living with dementia is no different.
- Do make sure you have some time afterwards so the person can share their memories and feel unhurried.
- Don’t expect them to recall everything for long afterwards - but do expect the care you’ve shown to stay with them for much longer.
- Do invite others to try The Wayback with their partner or relative. Having something to do together can enrich relationships, particularly for teenagers and children.
- Don’t forget to have fun.
